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Women's tests are automatic 60

posted Tue, 12/02/08
Woodsmen

A woman is not in control of her testing of men. It's automatic. That is the hardest thing for men to understand. Women are not in control of what they find attractive. Their body does it for them. Women test any man they meet with questions. Questions like "Can I ask you a personal question?" "So why no girlfriend" "Bet you say that to all the girls" "What do you do for a living" "Are you mad at me" stare at you to see if you get uncomfortable in the silence. Or simply getting upset over nothing just to see how you react. To the untrained this seems like general questions of intrest, but a woman's inner mind knows better. When a woman sees another women ask questions she will now what's going on, but when she is in the situation she is on auto pilot. She is useing her limbic system to comunicate her intentions. As for putting a stop to the test, yes! that's what a woman wants a man to do. Her lizard brain wants a guy to call her on her test's and not just walk away thinking she is nuts. Most men use their cerebral cortex. The two systems do not match and are communicating on two incompatible frequencies. When a woman sees the man just doesn't get it he is done for. Now matter how good the girl is.

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1. Dave left...
Tue, 12/02/08 6:41 pm

Sounds like we humans are barely walking upright.


2. Ali left...
Tue, 12/02/08 11:02 pm

As I said on the other thread I have to disagree with this. Women are not these oblivious creatures who know not what they do, often things are done for a reason whether that reason is admitted to or not. It's part of the scam to get you to think they are out of control and cannot get a grip on their behavior. Then once they have you making excuses for them, they've gotten away with whatever it is they were doing. So basically either you are dealing with a grown woman or a little girl in grown woman clothing...."But when a man's in the house the bullshit stops." Maybe it's high time for somebody to put they foot down on these shennanigans.


3. Woodsmen left...
Wed, 12/03/08 11:41 am

Not making excuses. That's the reality of the situation. In other words Ali "When a woman sees the man just doesn't get it he is done for" Ok Ali I'm calling you out on this one. Tell us the proof you have that women are in control of what they are attracted to. What works for you to attract a woman? What steps do you take to get that woman you like?


4. ali2 left...
Wed, 12/03/08 11:52 am

women plays games all the time,every time and they wont stop...even in marriage. why they play these games, no man can ever tell, but it pathetic and childish. they never ask us guys directly, but have to play games in order for us to understand them. i dont know why girls just cant talk to a guy and find out what they guy is like. and when the guy knows he is being tested, he returns the favor by testing her....and then the whole relationship will be a farce by constant testing each other. there will be no genuiness, no trust and no relationship