Why do i like it ? 67

Sounds to me you want to have an affair! Spare me the bullshit! Remember only you can be true to your boyfriend. If not! Tell him it is over or will you just string him along!

Simple;- some people are too easily flattered.

You love your boyfriend yet you long for/seek romantic attention from other men?

Something is fishy here. Be honest with yourself. If you welcome advances from other men you are vunerable for an affair because your love for your partner isn't as strong as you would like to believe.

there is truth in some of the other comments...but ...there is not a man woman or child who doesn't ever have a bad thought or say the wrong thing or act a little selfish at some point in time. You are not a bad person because you have a bad thought...everybody does, everybody!! Your work colleague is new and exciting..being attractive he well knows his appeal...for you ...it sounds like your guy at home has become just a regular guy ... what do you want ??Someone to watch a movie with and occasional dinner out ..or go back to the excitement of partying and dating etc. choose...although 5 years seems an awful long time to decide you don't want what you have...unless you are very unhappy with what you have. what is hard in choosing is the sentimental stuff and emotion that can becloud your good judgment..you have a real dilemma girl..but whatever...don't spend the rest of your life looking back in the rear view mirror..