We Control Men With Our Pussy Power 2825

Thank God. At last, an honest woman. But you really didn't tell us guys anything we didn't know.

Ill bet you mother is so proud of you visitor.

1.We men have given women the illusion of control. 2.While young we promise you things we will never deliver just to get into your pants. 3.Then we dump you and move on. 4.When you get too old and saggy, we pass you on to the desparate, patient, geeky guys. 5.They buy you nice things to shut you up and knock you up to keep you busy while doing hot young girls that they make empty promises to on the side. 6. No, we don't care what you think or feel. 7. Yes those pants make you look fat. 8. Yes, she is prettier than you. 9. And the only reason we sweep you off your feet is to get you on your back. Face it. You are owned. Get over it.

Dave, ask visitor if you can have your balls for the weekend. And if you are out and about, pick up a spine. The whimpy pseudofeminist supporter bit never, ever works.

>>1.We men have given women the illusion of control. 2.While young we promise you things we will never deliver just to get into your pants. 3.Then we dump you and move on. 4.When you get too old and saggy, we pass you on to the desparate, patient, geeky guys. 5.They buy you nice things to shut you up and knock you up to keep you busy while doing hot young girls that they make empty promises to on the side. 6. No, we don't care what you think or feel. 7. Yes those pants make you look fat. 8. Yes, she is prettier than you. 9. And the only reason we sweep you off your feet is to get you on your back. Face it. You are owned. Get over it. <<

This is the "nice guy" we are missing out on? Didn't see anyone coming forward to dispute his claims, no surprise, even "nice guys" probably would love to think this nonsense is true. That'll learn those mean ol' women not to take them for granted! LOL

And anyone who thinks "visitor" is an actual female deserves to be with a woman like "visitor" is describing.

>>Dave, ask visitor if you can have your balls for the weekend. And if you are out and about, pick up a spine. The whimpy pseudofeminist supporter bit never, ever works.<<

Wow, thanks for the tip!

It's clear to see that Visitor and Antivisitor have the same disposition towards the opposite sex. And neither of them are nice, DJ. I also notice that you yourself did not dispute the claims of "visitor" nor any other women who have come on this blog speaking similar rubbish so hush.

>>And anyone who thinks "visitor" is an actual female deserves to be with a woman like "visitor" is describing.<< DJ

DJ, what is it?? Why are you afraid to admit that women are messed up as well?? How do YOU know that "visitor" isn't an actual female?

What's wrong DJ, don't like to hear the females you're trying your damnest to defend, slap you in the face with how too many females actually think?

When Antivistior striked back, you got upset with HIM? WTF??!! What about "visitor" you didn't have a problem with HER for her comments. Instead you say some dumb shit like "anyoneone who thinks "visitor is an actual person, deserves a woman like that."

Did you see "visitor" comments, these are the females we are discussing on this blog. One happens to come in here and confirm it, and you're still not wanting to admit that THERE ARE FEMALES OUT THERE LIKE THIS, TOO DAMN MANY IF YOU ASK ME??!!!!!

NOW A MAN COMES BACK AND ATTACK, LIKE ANTIVISTIOR AND YOU SAY, "DO WE REALLY WANT A "NICE" GUY LIKE THAT??" WTF??!!

DJ, HOW ABOUT OFFERING ADVICE TO THESE GUYS ON HERE, AND STOP WITH THE SUCK-IT-UP ATTITUDE!! IT'S WOMEN WHO NEVER LIKE TO ADMIT TO ANYTHING, LIKE YOU, WHO I JUST DON'T GET!!

And THESE ARE THE WOMEN (DJ, VISITOR) that WE'RE missing out on. I'm sorry, but as far as am concerned women are never wrong, in THEIR eyes.

>>I believe visitor is a women and I believe she means what she says but I don't think she speaks for all women just a lot of women.<<

Men want to believe a lot of women are this way, it kind of seems like a coping mechanism. It's easier to think you are alone because of the "mean ol' women" it has nothing to do with your own behaviour.

>>And THESE ARE THE WOMEN (DJ, VISITOR) that WE'RE missing out on.<<

Copycat.

And whoever thinks they can get me to "hush" by telling me to obviously don't know me to well.

Adrian...so perfect...such a victim...a proud martyr.

None of us is perfect. Try looking into the mirror for the source of your problems instead of blaming everyone and everything else?

Sure, people do bad things, but do you have to jump on the bandwagon and be just as bad?

Look...the only person in this world you can control is yourself. Do that. Don't worry about what others do outside of the context of self defense.

Nobody holds a gun to your head and says you *have* to date a hoe. You chose to date them, and chose to worry about whether or not you have their approval.

Shift your romantic attentions to good women. You'll still have some compatibility problems, but getting cheated, lied to, and stolen from, or rejected on some superficial basis won't be among them.

Nobody's making you obsess over the stupid people. You're doing that voluntarily. Maybe you enjoy misery. I don't know.

Just don't expect my sympathy for it. I've been passed over, traded in, taken for granted, and ignored by enough "nice guys" to have lost any sympathy for those who can't see the good women right in front of them. I have as much sympathy for them as I do for the women who reject and pass over my good male friends, and even some of my exes I've had to let go because of compatibility issues.

...which is to say none.

Like goes to like. The law of attraction is pretty standard throughout nature. You attract who you attract because you either have something they need, or have something they want to exploit. It works the same way with you.

Apparently these hoes you love to hate have something you need or want to exploit. You'll get some peace when you figure out what that is, and whether or not you want to continue along those lines.

...and before you even think to say I don't know how it feels, keep in mind that I did get a string of a few xenophobes. I figured out that what I was seeking in them was emotional stability, which is a serious and valid need, but there is such a thing as too stable...a line between stable and sheeple.

When I rolled back that line into a safer zone, I stopped even attracting that kind of guy. Now I have another set of problems, but they're ones I can deal with better than culture hate.

So I've been there...angry and not understanding why people seemed to get off on torturing me for some reason. They did me wrong sure, but only because I let them get close enough to do it. When I figured out why I was letting them get that close, and sewed up that hole in my filters, it seemed like I was living in a whole different country.

You handle yourself, and your perspective will change too.

Yes there are women who think like that. News flash, these are the kinds of women who fuck men over, you wanted to know what we were complaining about, just look at this shit. It's right there for you to witness and you still deny it. What, do we need the video cam catching women in the act like the Rodney King beatdown for you to believe it? Do we need a bloody glove and a White Bronco? Do we need signed affadavits? Audio confessions? Damn. Yall should know, these heffers are possibly among some of your girlfriends or at least you know of some of them so don't act like they don't exist.

I notice "visitor" did not post with a particular name so I know she is also a coward. Antivisitor answered her back in kind now all of a sudden there is a problem? Please. As far as I can see, situation handled. Clean up on Isle 7, somebody just got skeeted on.

>>I notice "visitor" did not post with a particular name so I know she is also a coward. Antivisitor answered her back in kind now all of a sudden there is a problem? Please.<<

Uh yeah, someone named their child "Antivisitor". Very courageous to use their real name like that.

Anyway...

• I think both posts are equally ignorant, and visitor's post are exactly what shunned men want to hear, as if a guy were trying to put himself of the shoes of a woman who dogged him out. I'm sure a girl could write what a guy thinks in all caps and it would be over the top like visitor's posts.

As for what Mamasan had to say to Adrian, it is the exact same thing females tell each other when they get dumped.

Yep, at some moments, it feels like talking to women...but that's kind of a good thing. It shows that guys have some of the same problems we do.

Now if we could just get them to realize that, we'd be getting somewhere.

Ali, nobody here is denying that women can be just as much assholes as men. We're just making the point that we're not all like that, and that the good ones may be more rare than the bad ones, but not so rare as to be nearly nonexistent.

I mean...We're here.

Why don't you see us?

Snap! It's because you don't want to.

We're not pretty enough, or not the right color/class/ethnicity/religion, or we smoke, or we don't smoke, or we're too butch, or we're too dependent, or we're too independent...whatever.

It's a good thing there are some men who do notice us.

...and when they do, we really appreciate it. I know I do.

While you're complaining about someone else disapproving of you, you're only a hairs breadth from wishing they approved of you...and from there just a nudge away from seeking their approval.

Why not say what I say? Fuck them. Fuck them and their mother, and their mother's mother for spawning such substandard wastes of gametes.

It feels nice. You say it, and then you let them go...and then you move on with your life, and whenever you encounter someone like that, you just say, "Fuck you," and keep stepping.

You're over here dwelling while they've gone on to find another sucker. They let you go. Let them go.

Nature has a nice cruel fate in store for them. Never you worry.

...but as long as you're still wallowing in their crap, your fate is still tied to theirs. The destruction and decay gets to win because you let it destroy you.

Stop that. It's only a matter of decision, and then it's a matter of work.

Complain about what's in there now that they're gone. You know how you got into these situations. Your survival instincts got you out alive. Now you can wail. You don't have to tear the trees around you down and kill every small mammal in sight. Howl about love, and how its loss makes you suffer. Howl about lonliness.

I think sometimes people dwell on external blame because they're not ready to just cry. It's okay to hurt. Hurt doesn't have to stay anger forever. It can be just pain. It's okay.

Ali, I agree. What the hell do we need to prove our point??!!! "Visitor" posted a comment, and this was the type of female we were discussing. That's all I'm saying.

Mamasan, you're right. What you mentioned above about not noticing the right ones. I've mentioned about overlooking those types. I'm trying to change that, and learn how to trust again, that's all.

But I just had a problem with DJ getting upset over Antivistor's comments. When he just responded to "visitor's" comments, that's all. It wasn't a problem whe SHE said it, but it was when HE said it. When Antivisitor was just striking back.

when i read the posts, i actually got the impression that Visitor is what DJ said: a shunned man putting himself in the perceived woman's shoes and having her say everything that justifies him being pissed.

now, on the flipside of that, i thought Antivisitor sounded like a rejected woman saying what every hoe wants to hear when she's been burned too many times by a jerk.

i say that b/c we've had women come here and post similar things, but they always take pride in it and let us know who they are. it's not something they want to remain anonymousfor. they want all the attention they can get, and they want it by name.

>>But I just had a problem with DJ getting upset over Antivistor's comments. When he just responded to "visitor's" comments, that's all. It wasn't a problem whe SHE said it, but it was when HE said it. When Antivisitor was just striking back.<<

So now it's my turn to say:

"Two wrongs don't make a right".

And I still don't think "visitor" was a woman cause then everyone would have probably had a problem with what "she" said instead of rushing to say "Oh you're so right, women are like that".

And you didn't seem to have a problem with what EITHER of them said, they both cast women in a negative light.

And you are right Alex, Antivisitor does kind of sound like a woman trying to be as over the top as visitor. But the post directed at Dave doesn't seem like something a female would post.

>>And you didn't seem to have a problem with what EITHER of them said, they both cast women in a negative light.<<

I'm just about read to give up. Antivistor comments, wasn't good also, but he was just STRIKING BACK!!!!!

WHAT IS THE PROBLEM???!!!!!

Alexandra, once again you're proving Ali's point with mine. WHAT IF IT WAS A WOMAN??!!!

Are you women afraid that it was a woman??? I just don't get it.

"Visitor" wasn't the first woman to post a post that pissed men on here off. I think that distinction goes to Pretty Mandy.

Women have books, websites, clubs, etc. All dissing men. Now men have a place to go to talk about their problems with women they've come in contact with. Now it's a problem??

Men we just can't win. Women, with exception of Mamasan, will continue to come on this blog, have no advice, give the "suck it up" speech, and try to ALWAYS make it look like MEN'S fault.

Go head and criticize this post females, go ahead with the "I'm never wrong" attitude. Mamasan, I thank you. You give me hope about females, I wish more could have your personality, you seem to try to actually give advice to these guys.

>>You give me hope about females, I wish more could have your personality, you seem to try to actually give advice to these guys.<<

Do you think you give women hope about males with your generalizations?

Visitor forgot to mention THAT WE HATE GUYS WITH SMALL DICKS TOO SO GET USE TO IT TINY TIM.

I think visitor was just venting her frustration with the things guys write on this blog. Don't you?

Dave, you hate guys with small dicks? You hate it so much you had to say it twice? LOL j/k.

I was stuttering. Sorry.

It upset you so much you were stuttering. I'm sorry. I hope you don't have to deal with guys with small dicks, it seems to upset you so much.

BTW, is Pussy Power anything like Punky Power?

I don't know DJ this is visiturs post. And, I'm only concerned with my own member not the other guys. :)

Not sure what to say to that, so I'll just smile and nod.

"Shift your romantic attentions to good women. You'll still have some compatibility problems, but getting cheated, lied to, and stolen from, or rejected on some superficial basis won't be among them."

I wonder what makes yall keep assuming we go looking for bad women? We all know you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. In case yall haven't been paying attention, WE WANT *GOOD* WOMEN!!!

Mamasan let me ask you something I mean you are an intelligent woman who is clued. Do you honestly think a "hoe" or otherwise morally defunct woman or even a woman with an agenda to exploit a man, who wants to get a serious relationship or married will present herself as what she is? Everybody who wants to get what they want masquerades as "good". I think what Adrian and others including myself want to know is how do we detect who is falsely "good" in order to avoid associating with undercover "hoes"?

Women will flock to get with known players and "alpha males" who have a long list of conquests, so I don't see the suprise "OMG I can't believe they played me" element there. Same thing goes for guys who go for women who make it no secret that they get around or otherwise don't value or honor their relationships.

When it comes time to get serious, that's when the potential for fraud goes up exponentially.

Dishonest people under pressure to get married for example, will put on their best face and make every attempt to keep those skeletons in the closet so their potential mate doesn't see them. They act "good" and appear to actually have values and morals. Then all hell breaks loose as the true colors come out. Hopefully this happens prior to tying the knot so the other can dodge the bullet but unfortunately when it happens after marriage there is the messy issue of nasty divorces. They weren't your friend in marriage and they won't be your friend in divorce court either.

I think some things that will really help people are 1) Knowing themselves and what they want in life and 2) Being able to be independent and self sufficient, i.e. not feeling like you MUST have a relationship for the sake of being with somebody in order to be a whole person 3)Being able to detect lying, insincerity or bullshit (this is apparantly an acquired skill). 4) Knowing what real love is and being able to tell whether someone else really loves you in return.

>>Not sure what to say to that,<< DJ that's not like you. You must have somehing to say?

Ummm, I'm happy for you and your member, Dave.

"BTW, is Pussy Power anything like Punky Power?"

Naw, Punky Power was non-exploitive.

>>Naw, Punky Power was non-exploitive.<<

Thanks for ruining the semi-fun vibe Dave and I had going. Leave it to Ali to ruin a good time.

NO FUN! *cracks whip* Back to work! Lol.

Leave it up to DJ to not take a joke. It's times like that I see I'm going to have to be the one to do the mature thing.... :P ZZZZRRRBBBBRRRRTTTT!

Adrian, DJ's basically saying the same thing I am. I'm just more fluent in Manian. Plus, I've dated women and near-queers (they call them metrosexuals nowadays).

I'd translate more, but duking it out is part of learning to communicate with each other more effectively. To be honest, both of you could do with better skills in that. You'll have fewer misunderstandings and petty arguments in the field.

Rappers battle online all the time. Now it's a sort of standard thing because they found that if they got used to doing it online, it helped them with their performance offline. It helped them to think faster and be more coherent at the same time.

Ali, yes, I am saying that some of y'all actually go looking for bad women. You just aren't conscious that this is what you're doing at the time.

It's the same situation as with women who swear up and down that they're looking for good men, but constantly hook up with jerks.

You need to clearly and honestly decide what it is you want in a woman, and go for that. Make a list of hard standards, soft standards, crap that annoys you, and crap that annoys you so much that you wouldn't be able to tolerate it. Put everything in it...even the stuff that seems superficial.

Then take your standards, and compile them into an imaginary woman. Then ask yourself, if you were that imaginary woman, would you date you? If not, ask yourself why. If so, go out and find her. Go through however many you need to test in order to find her. Be realistic cause nobody is perfect, but if she's got too much of the crap that annoys you, or crap that's intolerable, kick her to the curb.

I have an imaginary guy. I've met many close to him in reality...some very close. The only problem was that they didn't stick around, or they changed.

So I had a few good long talks with my imaginary guy to figure out why he didn't stay. He told me that it was because he had better things to do.

So rather than continuing to pursue guys who were nice and good, I've begun to filter against those merely nice or good, and for those to whom I would be the best thing they had to do.

>>Leave it up to DJ to not take a joke.<<

You have the word joke in your vocabulary? Are you sure you know what it means?

Interesting. I will have to try that technique.

<<Alexandra, once again you're proving Ali's point with mine. WHAT IF IT WAS A WOMAN??!!!>>

then it was a woman. and y'all are vindicated. ok? it doesn't really pain me that much to admit that it could be a woman.

i'm just making the observation that, compared to other similar posts mad here, if it WAS a woman, she probably would have left at least SOME kind of name, rather than "visitor".

<<Women have books, websites, clubs, etc. All dissing men. Now men have a place to go to talk about their problems with women they've come in contact with. Now it's a problem??>>

i'm sorry, i didn't realize this was an exclusively male rant site. and no, it's not a problem. but any time we try to give you advice that you don't want to hear, or think is too harsh, this is the argument you pull out. you know what? the "suck it up" speech is a staple in my repertoire, even, no, ESPECIALLY with my girlfriends.

>>i'm sorry, i didn't realize this was an exclusively male rant site.<<

It wasen't intended to be a rant site but that's what it's turned into.

>>Interesting. I will have to try that technique. <<

And why don't you try the technique of actually saying something positive. We believe in you, we know you can do it.

>>i'm sorry, i didn't realize this was an exclusively male rant site. and no, it's not a problem. but any time we try to give you advice that you don't want to hear, or think is too harsh, this is the argument you pull out. you know what? the "suck it up" speech is a staple in my repertoire, even, no, ESPECIALLY with my girlfriends. <<

I thought the guys were supposed to be the strong, logical ones and women the emotional ones.

>>>>i'm sorry, i didn't realize this was an exclusively male rant site.<< It wasen't intended to be a rant site but that's what it's turned into. << Sorry Dave.

Isn't it funny how guys claim to be the logical ones, but when you try to give them logical advice, they get emotional?

"And why don't you try the technique of actually saying something positive. We believe in you, we know you can do it."

You know what, DJ for your information I wasn't even talking to you, I was talking to Mammasan. You start the catty shit and then you try and call me out for it as if I am the only one who does it. So let's end the cattiness right now and get blatant. I think you positively have your head too far up your ass and you STILL can't see shit.

If you would take a break from trying to bust peoples balls for a minute and actually stop arguing with people for the pure sake of being oppositional and READ, you would see the positive things I've said. And MAYBE you would actually have something intellectual and helpful to add to the disccussion instead of YOURSELF ALSO REPEATING THINGS OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND PLAYING DODGE THE RELEVANT ISSUES AND QUESTIONS. According to you I've been all negative. But that's pretty much limited to when I'm arguing with you these days, and don't forget, you yourself are not a bowl of sunshine either!

Funny how when I stop the back and forth you seem to want to start it up again by taking cheap shots. Well let's put an end to that. How about this? I'll ignore you if you ignore me. Sound fair? I think a nerve has been touched with you and you feel the need to get back at people by being a smartass at every opportunity. But leave me out of it from now on. I don't see Mamasan or Alexandra starting any shit so what is your problem?

Read everything you wrote and apply it to yourself also. When I was joking around with Dave, what made you decide to jump in and kill the mood? My joking wasn't even at the expense of men or women, yet you felt the need to jump in with negativity. I really wouldn't throw stones if I were you. At least every once in awhile I like to joke around and lighten up.

I know this isn't my blog DJ, but why are you on here?? I've made comments about you, and ME.

I've tried to stop the "cattiness" and the arguing between us. Go to "When a woman is really interested" link. Scroll down and see the last comment I made.

If you haven't read it, please do. I'm asking to resolve the issues. You seem to want to take out my statements petty stuff and start arguments. It's really getting annoying.

I know I have too, but I'm asking for us to resolve the issue. I'm not trying to gain up on you along with Ali, but he's right. We seemed to have touch a nerve, I've mentioned that.

Just please go to that link and read what I posted. Let's ALL stop the cattiness. Because as long as EVERYONE on here states their opinions, and everyone respects it, we'll be okay.

It just seems that you're angry towards men for having complaints toward women. I know you have your opinions, but so does everyone else. These guys are just looking for a shoulder, not the "suck it up" speech. Who said guys didn't have emotions??

If they didn't would they be on here?? Guys ARE going to have THEIR complaints about women, get over it. Not trying to sound mean or rude, but maybe it's you who need to "suck it up."

Didn't like that now, did you??

>>I know this isn't my blog DJ, but why are you on here?? <<

I was under the impression this site was about "relationships", and seeing how I was in one I thought I would check it out.

>>If they didn't would they be on here?? Guys ARE going to have THEIR complaints about women, get over it. Not trying to sound mean or rude, but maybe it's you who need to "suck it up."

I don't go around projecting the behaviour of the guys on here to "most guys". What I read on here hardly effects how I interact with people in the real world.

>>Didn't like that now, did you??<<

Did you see me typing "WTF!"?

DJ, I'm really concerned. What did we say that touched a nerve within YOU.

I know that you're just trying to put in your insight, but you seem to be the only female on here, as though we personally said something to you.

I know I've had my disagreements with Mamasan, and Alexandra, but you seem to have took something literally. What is it?? I'm really concerned.

>>Did you see me typing "WTF!"?<<

Is that's just you're way of sneaking it in there?? (smile, j/k)

>>I know I've had my disagreements with Mamasan, and Alexandra, but you seem to have took something literally. What is it?? I'm really concerned. <<

I like the way you guys keep saying "But Mamasan and Alex don't....". You do realize we are three different women with three different personalities right? Women can actually be different from each other, even if they are saying the same thing. I'm sorry if I'm not tactful at times, but that's who I am, I'm happy with who I am, if you don't like it, I'm not sure what to tell you (I'm not the type to tell people "Please don't respond").

>>>>Did you see me typing "WTF!"?<< Is that's just you're way of sneaking it in there?? (smile, j/k)<<

I was thinking that when I typed it.

I'm sorry for the "please don't respond" I didn't know you took it so seriously.

I only did it because I wanted you to refrain yourself and just THINK about it. Instead of not, and taking it as a challenge.

I'm trying to start to refrain myself also, so I can get a better understanding of people's post.

>>I'm sorry for the "please don't respond" I didn't know you took it so seriously<<

Doesn't matter how politely you try to tell someone to shut up, it's still telling them to shut up. You notice how I never do that? Even if I don't like what someone has to say, I wouldn't tell them not to say it.

DJ, read the blog. I wasn't telling you to shut up. The please don't respond sentence, was for EVERYONE.

So they could just sit and think about it. I mentioned that I'm working on that too. I apologized for it, and I also never meant for you to take it as a "shut up", I never meant for that.

DJ, do you like arguing, just for the sake of it. The young man obviously tried to apologize twice. I read the post, I don't think he was telling anyone to shut up.

I know what's up, you really don't like that the young man is trying to make peace. You hate it don't you.

I get the sense that you're a very insecure person, you enjoy arguing. The notion was made that he didn't know you took it so seriously. So get over it!!! I've been reading these posts for three days now.

You have been making comments, back and forth. Someone is offering a peace and you won't accept it. Why? Is it because you want the arguments to continue? As others had stated.

So when you said "DJ, do you date bad boys" (Please don't respond) That was directed at everyone? Were you asking everyone if they thought I went out with bad boys?

I am so tired of typing the phrases "bad boys" and "nice guys".

From the everyone loves a winner thread

>>DJ, once again. Are you seeking out bad boys to have sex with?? (please don't respond)<<

BTW, I only seek out my boyfriend to have sex with. And no he's not a bad boy.

Matthew, I don't deny any of my faults. You are not going to see me wondering why "everyone is ganging up on me", even though I don't really think they are. Yeah I like to debate, and I wish there was more to debate about on here than how horrible women are and how they only want "bad boys" or they martyrdom of "nice guys".

And it does take two (sometimes three) to make an arguement, I'm not here talking to myself.

>>I am so tired of typing the phrases "bad boys" and "nice guys".<<

Then how about "jerks" and "Beta males"

Next we'll move on to omega males. ;)

Okay Dave, that'll work.

Is there really an omega male, or are you joking around again?

>>DJ, once again. Are you seeking out bad boys to have sex with?? (please don't respond)<<<<

DJ, once again all I can do is apologize, whether you accept that apology or not, is up to you.

>>Is there really an omega male, or are you joking around again? <<

DJ you must know that I NEVER jerk around. ;)

In the animal kingdom an omega male is the outcast of the group. He not allowed to eat unless all others has finished then he MAY be allowed a scrap. He must crawl and grovel. He takes this abuse because he must stay with the group. He would be killed if he were left alone in the jungle.

Some human societies have omega males as well.

It's cool Adrian, I overreacted. We can move on.

>>Some human societies have omega males as well. <<

Is this the phony nice guy?

>>Some human societies have omega males as well. <<

Is this the phony nice guy?

Remember the former caste system in India.

>>Remember the former caste system in India.<<

The what?

the untouchables

What is a Caste System? A caste system is a social system where people are ranked into groups based on heredity within rigid systems of social stratification, especially those that constitute Hindu India. Some scholars, in fact, deny that true caste systems are found outside India. The caste is a closed group whose members are severely restricted in their choice of occupation and degree of social participation. Marriage outside the caste is prohibited. Social status is determined by the caste of one's birth and may only rarely be transcended. Certain religious minorities may voluntarily constitute a quasi-caste within a society, but they are less apt to be characterized by cultural distinctiveness than by their self-imposed social segregation. A specialized labor group may operate as a caste within a society otherwise free of such distinctions (e.g., the ironsmiths in parts of Africa). In general, caste functions to maintain the status quo in a society.

the 'untouchables' are the omegas

2nd class, 3rd class, 4th class citizens and so on. Let me guess, the "untouchables" are kept in poverty and it's nearly impossible to get out, right?

drop the 'nearly' in nearly impossible and you're right

That sounds like a messed up system.

Doesn't sound to different from a certain other country I know of.

welcome to the world of religious zealots

One thing to remember folks, is that class is relative to the culture that creates the hierarchy. Most social hierarchies to date have based rank and class on petty differences that really don't have much to do with survival quality or adaptability.

Omega in one culture or survival situation, might be Alpha in another.

Man, you guys are making way too much of this. Vistor was used abused, heart real bad. Not all women are like that.

I think visitor just wanted to stir up trouble.

Exactly!

Well, whoever it was got what they wanted.

It did bring up some interesting things about communication though. People grow at their own speed. One can point the direction, but can't walk their path for them.

We're each at various stages, and I think we all have something to contribute to the discussion here. We all have to understand though, that each of us have different ways of coping...and one way guys are newly exploring in public is bitching without the aid of alcohol.

Another thing...We each came here for a variety of reasons. Whatever reason we did though, it's not the job of others here to amuse or entertain us. We can share our perspectives, but it's not any of our jobs to agree or disagree with anyone...and it's not our jobs to coddle anyone.

The advice to "butch up" though, is something that needs some Manian/Womanian translation though. When guys say it, in my observation, it usually means something more like "suck it up inside" as in kill the feelings associated, as opposed to the Womanian meaning, "deal with it however you need to, but keep a brave face".

Since gender polarity is less than it used to be, especially on the internet, we're exploring each others' traditional meanings and methods.

I'm actually happy to see this, regardless of the arguments. I'm glad to see women getting tougher, and men more sentimental. Sooner or later maybe it'll even out.

*suppresses emotions*

j/k lol.

I'm guessing I'm the wrong guy for this blog, since I'm the one that most of you probably hate. When your girl was sneaking out, I was who she was sneaking to. When your girl was thinking about someone else while in bed with you, that was me. I'm the guy that makes what visitor said BS. I don't spend money, I don't deal with their emotions that's for the other guy to deal with, from the marriage proposals I've received the bad guy for sex good guy forever is even more BS than the rest of it, but what truly amazes me is how easy it is to be me and how hard it is to be the other guy yet all of you want to be the other guy and are whining and crying like the women you wish you had.

At last one of the assholes reveals themselves. Just remember, Karma is a bitch.

"Karma is a bitch", so are female dogs point? Thing is though, karma works funny, I maybe damaging someone's already damaged relationship (people in happy relationships don't cheat), but I'm also making a woman feel important and special again. So my karma balances out, I still get women and ya'll still sit around crying in your beer about how all the women don't want you, means one of two things, either you are repulsive or you need a new personality. But if you really want the secret, women like challenges, if you are too much a push-over (the nice guy) they may say they want that, but really they'd rather work for it a little bit (why I get 10 times the women the nice guy gets). I'm not really the asshole, they are, I just learned to conquer their rules for their game and use it to my advantage.

I wanna bad girl / Get at me bad girl

dogziw <<I still get women and ya'll still sit around crying in your beer about how all the women don't want you, means one of two things, either you are repulsive or you need a new personality. >>

Right...

And how much of your life, your time, energy, money, is put into "getting" women? And what is involved with that "getting," anyway? Is sex something you get, like a dog begging for a treat? What does it cost you?

I can go to a whore and "get" better sex for a fraction of the price you shell out---at bars, for clothes, the car, all the femmy products, the entire phony lifestyle---so big hairy deal. And my balls don't end up in anyone's purse afterward.

Be honest and tell us what price you pay for that pussy---and tell us you don't cry in your bloody beer either.

I think you're just as whipped as the rest of us; which means one of two things: you just deal with it differently (like acting like Studly Fucking Stud) or you like being a good doggy. Only you know which it is.

Women control us with their pussy power eh? Then I guess that the divine notion then huh? Kill off all the men with your pussies and have nothing but the planet earth being run by a bunch of bisexual and lesbos huh?

Ain't thatta bitch!

She is plain right, we are controlled by a pussy, but just until the next one appears--usually in a few weeks.

Rest my case.

We women control men with our pussy power?....Sorry, I don't agree with that statement. (Isn't it bad enough that some men think they can control you just because they have a lot of money?) Trying to control someone just causes him/her to rebel and resent. NOBODY accepts being controlled or manipulated. It may seem that way at first. But EVERYONE reaches a point where they won't take anymore shit.

As far as pussy power...the women who truly believe in it (usually young, sexy hotties), don't believe there will ever be a backlash. What they don't know or care about or want to admit is sometimes when a man gets burned enough, he looses faith in women and something inside him switches. He decides to NEVER get burned again. He picks himself up, dusts himself off, turns inward and works on himself, building himself up. When he starts becoming the man he wants to be, he relaxes. And because he no longer gives a shit whether women approve of him or not...he becomes that ultra cool, confident guy they start pining over. (The best example I can give is of a certain Yankee shortstop who is notoriously famous for banging arrogant hotties.) It doesn't happened all the time. There are still a lot of nice men out there. And just like nice girls get tired of the angry men saying "bitch" this and "ho" that, nice guys get tired of the angry women saying "loser" this and "asshole" that.

I realize that I am extremely fortunate. I get much love and support from both the men and women in my large family. Many of my relatives have been married for decades. (My parents have been married for 40 years. My grandparents were married over 52 years until my grandfather died of cancer.) What I noticed over the years was that the family members who have sustained happy marriages, compliment each other, they do not compete with each other or try to control one another. I guess my family is just old school. It saddens me that love has become a "take no prisoners" competition to so many people.

The original poster sounds angry and is probably worth avoiding. I could go on forever dismantling her logic, but probaby best just to say that women don't control me. If they try, I leave. I am looking for a partnership.

This is SOOOO Funny....let's face it guys....all women are maternally selfish- it's in-built....sadly if you guys do not recognise women are preying at the start and defining their provider type for the future....don't you realise we are absolutely no different from any other species when it comes down raw instinct! Live with it guys...make the promises....but don't keep them if she's not up to your standard after a few years - this is the one mistake 99% women make - they think they've won so they rest on their laurels! If you have a woman who doesn't keep herself well, doesn't play the species game by seeing to your needs as well as her own, after she "played" you for a few years...then she doesn't respect you no more! SHE@S got SELFISH!! Face it and Dump her! You don't need that expensive twat! God bless the person who started this! Sadly many men will continue to fall prey to the ladette!

Hmmmm, I disagree with the comment all women are maternally selfish. I never agree when someone tries to lump everyone in one category. Now as far as everything else, I agree. Even though the point was made in quite a cynical (maybe angry?) tone, it is a valid one.I have seen it with my own parents. They make the effort to meet each others needs and do not take each other for granted. It is so important to have that respect. Making an effort to keep yourself up physically and mentally (and even finacially stable since most women work nowadays) shows that you respect yourself AND your partner. It shows that you are taking the relationship seriously and you appreciate what you have. Far too many people do take for granted what they've got and become lazy. This is unfortunate because it is only natural (and understandable)that someone will become resentful when his/ her needs are not met.

The people who act like that will do so for as long as you put up with it. Therefore don't take any crap from them.

a little harsh i think

In response to to "We Women Control Men With Our Pussy Power 2339"

I would rather deal with honest whore than a dishonest woman...

Doc, a "few years"...

Lol you have more patience than I do...

That type of broad would have the door slammed in her face quicker than a Jehova's witness.

No one should have to deal with that bs, you get one chance to *screw up, and when you do you are written off as another faceless causality.

Lol it's funny because I just wrote an article on how to avoid becoming whipped...

http://taylorsadvicecolumn.blogspot.com/2008/02/10-ways-to-avoid-getting-wh ipped.html

Lets face it! This is an opinion of one little screaming entitlement princess. A true man see's this woman and walks away. That simple! My advice is never give another person any control. Be your own person. Who knows maybe she is nothing more than a fat used up ugly looking dog. Maybe her equipment is worn out and drags on the floor. She obviously has issues! A true feminazi, read her hatred!

PUSSY POWER DECLINES WITH AGE!!! IT ALL IS AN ILLUSION!!!

Xena, I used to think that, but apparently it declines with status.

The pussy isn't where the power is.

If a guy needs to have a media pretty woman to feel good about himself, then he'll endure humiliation to get that. If he needs her to be a certain religion or ethnicity, he'll do what it takes to get that.

The oblective for guys who fall for "pussy power" isn't just to get into a hole. It's to secure a mate who will validate or increase his social and sometimes financial status. The more trendy one's woman looks, the more money/status he is perceived to have.

I read an article some time ago, that I don't remember who wrote it, but she was a "Silicon Valley wife" who noticed at a dinner party, that she looked very different from the others. The others were some flavor or another of "Stepford", and she was a geek like her husband.

The other women there didn't understand why she was talking to them, and thought she worked for the company. She's smart, modestly dressed, and probably could work for the company, but chose to be a stay at home mom, though I think she worked at home, which is probably why I was reading the article.

It was a very interesting read.

Was the original post satirical?

If a man falls for this proverbial pussy power, he is digging his own grave because she can now control this man. A man should not let himself succumb to this. It will lead to his ruin. She will make a fool out of him. Remember to think with your head and not your crotch! The real power is WILL POWER!

I wouldn't be so quick to say this was a farce.

You think the op is satirical? Why? Because no woman would be so blunt about it?

Heh. Well you should be glad she's putting it out there about herself. She's saying it behind an anonymous message board, free from reprisals. We don't know her and we will never come into contact with her so what face is there for her to loose? She basically did a drive-by posting and didn't have to stick around for the ensuing counterpoints.

As for some more concrete examples of this mentality, check out this story:

"Brian Austin Green, 35, had a mastif-pitt bull mix dog named Macy that he adopted three years ago when she was just a puppy. His live-in fiance Megan Fox, 22, is said to have told him that it was her or the dog. The National Enquirer has this story, and claims Macy was a well-trained and well-behaved dog and didn’t cause any problems. Brain ultimately gave up the dog to a good home at Megan’s insistence, but he’s said to be heart broken about it.

Megan Fox has fiance Brian Austin Freen on such a short leash that she’s forced him to give up his best friend - his beloved dog Macy!

“Megan claimed she felt threatened by Macy, but that dog was a sweetheart. She wouldn’t hurt a fly,” divulged an insider.

“Brian adored Macy and refused to give her up for the longest time, but Megan nagged him about it until he finally gave in. He was crushed.”

adopted 3-year-old Macy, a mastiff-pit bull mix, when she was 3 months old - around the same time he and Megan, 22, began living together, according to sources.

After adopting the dog, 35 year-old Brian enrolled her in rigorous training courses at the Hollywood Dog Training School…

“Macy was really mellow and well-behaved,” the source added. “Whenever Brian went out of town he’d board Macy at the training school.

“The trainers were shocked when Brian’s assistant came in one day and said Brian was being forced to give Macy up for adoption because Megan didn’t get along with her.”

The Enquirer goes on to say that to add insult to injury “Right after Brian gave Macy up for adoption, Megan adopted two tiny dogs.”

There was a story a while ago the Brian was overheard at lunch venting to a friend about how Megan controls his life, including making schedules for him so he spent a specific amount of time together. These two were rumored to have broken up last month, but Brian denied it, saying they were still together.

It’s very cold to make someone give up their pet, and you have to wonder if these two are ready to get married and take it to the next step. If Fox is as controlling and cold-hearted as she’s rumored to be, she would definitely make a terrible wife. It doesn’t matter how hot someone is if they’re a nightmare to be with."

hxxp://www.celebitchy.com/13484/megan_fox_makes_brian_austin_green_give_his _dog_up _-_then_gets_2_dogs_herself/

Now although this is a somewhat celeberity couple, don't think this kind of thing doesn't happen among regular people. The women who think like this need to be avoided at all cost, they don't care about the man they are with they are just planning to use him as a tool or accessory or a means to an end. How the hell can you be happy dealing with a woman like that?

You think the op is satirical? Why? Because no woman would be so blunt about it? No, I suspect thiis op could be rubbing this bad behavior in the face of the majority of