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Women don’t really like sex 1953

Thu, 06/26/08 3:29 P GMT-05
Men are brought up to believe that women don’t really like sex. Why is this? Barbara DeAngelis Ph.D

What women really mean when they say.... 1045

Sat, 03/22/08 2:46 P GMT-05
i feel safe with you = you pathetic loser, you're an angel = you're boring, you're so honest = you're boring, you're so nice = you're boring you're such a nice guy = you're just like a girl, what a sexual turn off. I would never have sex with

Women's assumptions! 140

Sun, 03/09/08 6:46 A GMT-05
Women regularly make the mistake of assuming that just because a man cares for her he must also understand her. But he doesn't. We call each other the "opposite" sex for a good reason--we are opposite

Do you Fight too Much? 751

Fri, 03/07/08 9:53 A GMT-05
Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson What is the single biggest question about improving your relationship? Husband and Wife Fight too Much This is not the first time I have I have heard the following question. My husband and I fight way too o

What do you think about name calling 23

Sat, 03/03/07 10:19 A GMT-05
When partners get angry or frustrated, they frequently yell or call each other names. Names can be very hurtful-and even at times are designed to hurt. One husband, when he was angry use to say to his wife “Yes, Gertrude, No Gertrude” dr

Respecting our Differences

Tue, 03/14/06 5:41 P GMT-05
REMEMBERING OUR DIFFERENCES"Without the awareness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other. We usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten this important truth. We exp

57% of men prefer Thinking while 76% of women prefer Feeling.

Mon, 01/02/06 10:08 A GMT-05
Tough-Minded or Tender-Hearted Appreciating Differences Through Type and Temperamentby Jack Falt Jane stood before her husband in a new dress she had just purchased for an upcoming dance. “Well, do you like it?” she asked. This is the qu

The Secret Language of Women -- Keywords and Their Meaning

Sat, 12/10/05 6:45 P GMT-05
Fine This is the word a woman uses at the end of any argument in which she feels she is right about but needs to shut you up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks. This will cause you to have one of those arguments. Five Mi

One big mistake women make

Wed, 12/07/05 8:58 A GMT-05
One of the biggest mistakes women make with men is rewarding them with loving behavior after they've treated us badly.How do we do this? We hug and kiss a man who is saying disrespectful things to us, and we apologize for getting him angry; we make

Take the War out of Words - Stop Defensive Attitudes

Wed, 11/09/05 8:02 A GMT-05
When Marcus and Sally first met they immediately felt like kindred spirits. Marcus was generally warm and open. But as their relationship continued, Sally noticed that sometimes when he was upset he had trouble talking. When she asked Marcus what was

Agreeing to Disagree - for ali and DJ

Mon, 10/24/05 5:29 P GMT-05
AGREEING TO DISAGREE: THE CULTURE OF ARGUMENT IN AMERICAA Conversation with Deborah Tannen and Michael TomsSo often the view of the world we see or hear about is one of conflict-opposing sides going at it hammer-and-tong. Newspapers, radio, televisio

It does require skill to use silence appropriately

Sun, 10/16/05 10:16 A GMT-05
Silence can be a bluescreen for the imagination. It does however require skill to use silence appropriately, for silence can speak louder than words. There are many kinds of silences, awkward silence, passionate silence, angry silence, mournful silen

How about be yourself and cut the bullshit?

Tue, 09/13/05 3:01 P GMT-05
How about be yourself and cut the bullshit? It works. I happened to use this technique and got a beautiful woman to marry me while I was attending community college and waiting tables - lived in a dump of an apartment, had no savings and lived payche

Men don't get it

Tue, 09/13/05 7:18 A GMT-05
I know this is common knowledge for most women but it needs to be said again from time to time."Women pick up on subtleties and then think about them. Men need things explained IN CAPITAL LETTERS before the message gets through."

Men are starting to avoid women all together

Sun, 09/11/05 9:21 A GMT-05
 Men are now starting to avoid women all together, because of the headaches they cause. Think about it men are tired about living up to women needs, what about OUR needs!!!! Men have been brainwashed since they were younger about how to treat women.

walking is good for your relationships

Thu, 09/08/05 10:01 A GMT-05
Reasons to Walk Together and TipsThe benefits of walking on a regular basis are well documented. Many walkers believe that walking is not only good for their hearts and bodies, walking is also good for their relationships.One step after another, walk

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus Notes - John Gray Ph.D.

Tue, 09/06/05 9:06 A GMT-05
<!--StartFragment -->Men and Women are Hard Wired Differently and respond differently.1. Men are from Mars, women are from VenusMen and women are very different in the ways they think, respond and behave. Understanding these differences helps r

Are women enslaved by attraction?

Mon, 09/05/05 12:18 P GMT-05
My theory is that the communication styles between men & women are at work here. Women typically don't state that their partner isn't satisfying them sexually. If they do, it's almost always in a critical way, telling everyone else except their p

When a woman is stressed

Sun, 09/04/05 9:46 A GMT-05
FINDING RELIEF THROUGH TALKINGWhen a woman is stressed she instinctively feels a need to talk about her feelings and all the possible problems that are associated with her feelings. When she begins talking she does not prioritize the significance of

Five common misunderstandings

Sun, 09/04/05 9:21 A GMT-05
Remembering that women are different helps him to be more understanding and respectful of her reactions and feelings. Without understanding the validity of her reactions, a man commonly defends himself, and they argue. These are five common misunders

Seemingly harmless criticism

Sun, 09/04/05 9:12 A GMT-05
Here are some brief examples of ways a woman might unknowingly annoy a man by offeringadvice or seemingly harmless criticism. As you explore this list, remember that these littlethings can add up to create big walls of resistance and resentment. In s

gain some sort of payoff

Wed, 08/31/05 5:38 P GMT-05
This all goes back to the differences in communication between the sexes. Men typically communicate verbally or in a fashion that's straight-forward to a degree. Women use "signals" to communicate or "drop hints". These can be ver

What their immoral peers are doing?

Wed, 08/24/05 6:06 P GMT-05
 I have a question, why is it that women on this blog get sooooo angry and offended when we call out what their immoral peers are doing? You would think we were talking about THEM the way they get so incensed. I'm soooo sorry it's distressing to you

"Is it OK to call another woman a 'slut'?"

Sun, 08/14/05 12:00 A GMT-05
Q. A friend of mine called a woman we know a "slut." For some reason, that made me mad. Who is she to judge? I told her how I felt and now she's upset with me. Should I apologize? A. Maybe you do need to apologize. But it sounds as though y

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