It's true attraction is not a choice. 10

Woodsmen

It's true attraction is not a choice. For both sides really. To attract women you don't need to be a bad guy, but you do need to know who you are. Having friends around you when you meet the woman also helps. It makes you less threatening to the woman. Don't meet women in night clubs or bars, because the women you meet there are just for fun. If you get hurt easily then you will have a broken heart every time you go out. Sit down and figure out what you truly want out of life and let that show. You will go back and fourth with the nice guy bad boy crap, but it will even out. Plus figuring out what you want will give you a base to fall back on and root yourself. Nice guys have no idea what they want and are just floating around waiting for something to happen. I used to be like that, but now I'm grounded and can work off a platform in a way.

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