I have a question. 64

Girlfriend.......................Run

Sister----Man or Woman! Once a cheater, always a cheater. It is very very rare someone cheats once. This is a two face lying snake, who wants to have his cake and eat it too. He has proven himself! He is not worthy!

Ok let's see, your ex husband is a known cheater (this is why you divorced), so regardless of your feelings about him you need to come to terms with the kind of person he is. Cheating goes hand in hand with lying and dishonesty so the bullshit will be thick indeed. He lied to you then and he is lying to you now and will keep on lying to you.

So because you still had feelings for him you got back together with him WHILE he was co-habitating with another woman. Why in the blue hell did you accept him back under those conditions? I have to just put this bluntly. ***HE'S FUCKING HER***. Probably as I type this. What he told you about his feelings toward you is a lie. By being with you he's being untrue to that other woman, and by living with her, he's being untrue to you. He's two-timing both of you. Don't buy any bullshit about them just being roomates. If you believe that, there's a plot of land on the moon on sale too...

He keeps taking her to family gatherings and parties, then that means they're still on. If you had any doubt as to whether you were being taken for a fool, THIS IS THE SMOKING GUN THAT DEBUNKS HIS LIES. If they were both going their seperate ways, they would get on with it already.

When someone's words contradict their actions, they are lying. He is playing you like a game of checkers. He already tried to turn your heart into swiss cheeze with his bullshit before, therefore why are you falling for the same old crap again?

Also your timetable is confusing me. Maybe it's the math....

You say you were married for 14 years but then you say you were divorced after a year of marriage. That doesn't add up. then you say you broke up 2 years ago were separated for 3 months and got back together but then you give another date Feburary 08.... when you told each other how you felt....

I'm a little confused about the timetable but it sounds complicated.

In any case, he sounds like a classic bullshitter and you already have the precedent of his prior infidelity and the current situation with him and his live-in girlfriend.

Can you see the writing on the wall here or are you letting your feelings cloud your judgement?