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A girl told me that she wanted a "Nice guy" but was sexually attracted to "Bad boys". She states that when girls are young they go with what they FEEL more then what they NEED. More importantly they go with the sexual feelings almost always when they are young. When they get older then they go for the "Nice guy" because they know they can settle down with them since they're more responsible and suited for marriage.
-will
I recently figured out that many women choose bad boys and jerks because
they don't think they are good enough for anything else. Many women keep
falling for the same type because the feel they "deserve it". They may have
had something bad in their past and are holding on to that hurt and
feelings of unworthiness. Talked with many women who are not in love with
the men they are dating. The women complain constantly about what a loser
the guy is, turn down many more attractive and suitable men who they
actually have attraction for. Only to stay with the loser who she needs to
support. Yes attraction isn't a choice, but when you don't love the guy and
he makes your life miserable well then your just an idiot. Those women
deserve the crappy relationship.
Illogical
"The women complain constantly about what a loser the guy is, turn down
many more attractive and suitable men who they actually have attraction
for. Only to stay with the loser who she needs to support."
I think that women prefer "bad boys" over the good ones because they think
that they can change them. They think well he said he do this and that but
once he have me then I will turn all of that around. Which, by the way, is
not true. Women need to know that they cannot change no one. Especially if
that person does not want to be changed. Just my opinion [=
i think that you are all wrong , women are more attracted to bad boys
because in general bad boys show traits of more dominance, arrogance,
confidence and ultimately more power than Mr NIce Guy. Women are attracted
to these traits, its an inbuilt wiring that they have in their brains, what
men have to try and do, is keep the Mr nice guy image but at the same time
use these traits and hence incorporate the element of attraction in their
relationships. You have to have the power in the relationship .
Then they are attracted to POWER which absolutely corrupts.
From what everyone is saying it seems women prefer bad boys for more than
one reason alone.
Eve might have had more than one reason why she wanted that forbidden fruit
but regardless, look at how that turned out.
Yes but she was told not to eat it in the first place or bad things would
happen and it would be her undoing...she didn't listen....
Ali -
Wow, with no women or unbiased men on the blog, those who have a strong
dislike for women have free reign. I must say, spending time with a man
who appreciates a good woman is a 1000 times better than wasting time
trying to argue against men who don't.
in one word ,caring is all what every normal girl seek ,whether the guy
jerk or responsible
Yeah but do jerks really care? If they cared then they wouldn't be called
jerks. That's like saying elephants should fly, or expecting that a "bad
boy" be a "good man". You might as well expect your pet dog or cat to set
the table for you at dinner tomorrow night. The experience of many women
shows that the expectation rarely if ever comes true. The guy would have to
totally change the nature of who he is. If the jerk pretends like he cares,
and he tells you what you want to hear (then dissapoints you repeatedly),
then he is setting you up every time. If you know enough about him to know
he's a jerk...what do you expect?
