Never listen to what woman say. Watch what they do.
Although I believe some women have deluded themselves when they say they
want a good guy. Good guys know that they are invisible to women.
Hmmm... sounds like you may be a nice guy who has been rejected a lot.
From what I have seen from sorting through what constitutes a 10 on hot or
not I can see why you might feel as you do. They seem to rate the thugs
high. (my opinion? BAAARRRRFFF!!!) You can keep your bad boys. I
married one when I was 17 and learned the error of my ways quickly when Mr
tough-guy tried to kill me. I am 40 now and my tastes run toward the
prince charming type that like to put me on a pedestal and has enough self
esteem to enjoy a pedestal right beside mine. I don't want a doormat and
I WON'T be a doormat for someone else. I want a kind caring considerate
equal--a best friend. You can't be friends with a bad boy. Now when you
guys get older and quit chasing dim witted 20 year old girls who watch too
many movies and read too many cheap romance novels...you will find women
who can sort reality from fiction and do NOT want bad boys. Give it time.
Best of luck to you guys. Hope you can survive the majority of idiot women
who tend to crush the good ones they bitch they can never find. There are
women out there who would die for you.
Sarah, What you said is all well and good, but, who is the father of your
children, the nice guy or the bad boy? My money says it was the bad boy.
sahra said she got with a bad guy, thanks helping reinforce the facts.
Well woodsmen it looks like all you did was agree with her. And what you
said wasn't even true, wasn't what you were really thinking. But you simply
reinforced her own self image of herself. This isn't about being afraid to
say such and such or speaking what's on your mind because you didn't do
that. You purposely told the woman she looked big because you're trying to
do that bad boy jerk behavior thing. And the fact that she still had lunch
with you afterwards just means this is what she is attracted to.